Find more focus & flow in you and your career in only 4 months
1:1 coaching program for ambitious women
Free yourself from everything you have to do and regain your balance, inner peace and freedom.
Without being dependent or weak, and without letting the fire for your ambition die out.
TAILOR-MADE
As an ambitious woman, you’re not like the average woman. On top of that: you have multiple roles to fulfill in your life. That requires customization.
TRACK RECORD
I’ve undergone a personal development journey of 15+ years, coached 75+ people one-on-one in the past three years, and been a speaker at events of 100+ people.
EXCLUSIVE & GUARANTEE
My coaching is intensive one-on-one with you, which is why I limit it to 3 clients per month. And if you don’t achieve your goals, we’ll continue at my expense.
You can’t always lead
You have everything you wanted: a thriving career, a packed schedule, and endless drive. But you feel like you’re stuck in a hamster wheel that keeps on spinning. You get frustrated from feeling not good enough and being very hard on yourself. You’re always “on,” juggling multiple responsibilities at once.
You close your laptop after a long workday. You’re tired, maybe even experiencing a headache. But now, your next role begins — whether as a friend, mother, partner, household manager, or maybe even caregiver. So, you push through. Because you have to.
But deep down, you crave more time for yourself, your relationships, friends, and family. You want to experience the freedom that you envisioned, so you can enjoy life and your relationships more fully. You want a thriving career and to feel good in your own skin.
Imagine if things could be different. You feel energized, balanced, and happy. You’ve found the balance between work and life, between your masculine and feminine energy. You can be powerful in your work and soft in your personal life. You feel connected to yourself and your surroundings.
You no longer have to choose between career and self-care. You enjoy your success and still have enough energy to fully embrace your free time.
Are you ready to find the inner peace that brings you not just success, but also deep fulfillment?
So that you can find more inner peace and freedom?
THEY WENT BEFORE YOU:
“What I experienced when you mirrored me goes deeper than what the average coach dares to touch. You brought me to a sense of basic safety, embraced by masculine energy. I dared to fully sink into my trust.
The combination of masculine strength and simultaneous softness created a new flow of energy, allowing me to experience and embrace my full potential.”
— Patricia Lapré, Leadership Trainer, Public Speaker & Coach
7 years as a team leader in healthcare. Entrepreneur and owner of Let’s Liv since July 2020.
Relentlessly loving, you hold up a mirror. ‘Relentless’ because you say what is necessary, no velvet gloves or gentle healer. And ‘loving’ because it serves your best interests.
You say what many people don’t dare to say but what you need to hear to grow. I think everybody could use Thomas at the right time!
— Steffie van den Dries, therapist, senior coach & -trainer
Do you recognize yourself in the following:
- Statements like “Are you working again/still? Aren’t you working too hard or too much? Shouldn’t you be doing less?” irritate you. You love your work; they just don’t get it.
- No one understands it the way you do, and if someone else does it, it takes more time and the quality is lower. So, you often fix things quickly and by yourself.
- You have to do a lot, you’re often ‘on,’ and you never really feel like you can lean back and relax.
- You get frustrated from feeling not good enough and being very hard on yourself.
- You’re constantly on the move, always developing. Stagnation is regression. Yet, you wish you could draw that confidence, calm, and fulfillment from within instead of externally.
- You feel stressed and sometimes frustrated. Despite your hard work and ambitions, you miss a sense of freedom. You want to grow in business and revenue, but you also crave more peace.
- You can carry a lot of weight and lead well. But somewhere, deep down… If it didn’t feel weak or dependent. You would love to feel supported and lighter.
- Despite your immense resilience & strength, you sometimes feel lonely because you have to do everything on your own and always be strong. You know you want to delegate, trust, and let go… But how?!
Listen here to more about Focus & Flow from Kirstie Neggers: (sorry, both in Dutch)
“Thomas was one of the first to unlock something in me, where I felt I could land. That I could allow myself to be supported. I have softened even more into my feminine energy, in my leadership.”
Check the video with met 23 results by clients:
How amazing would it be if…
- You could let go of control and delegate tasks without worrying that they won’t be done on time or to your satisfaction. You are still the leader.
- You no longer “have to” so much from yourself and no longer feel that constant rush without guilt. You experience deep, inner peace because you can let go.
- You feel more internal safety, validation, and confidence, and you approach everything from that place first. This leaves you feeling more balanced, satisfied, and calm.
- Your inner peace and flow pay off on all fronts in your business. Because you are magnetic, you attract more enjoyable people in your business and personal life.
- You can focus on the things you truly love, like making an impact. This allows you to experience joy in your work every day.
- You can, occasionally, not have to lead from masculine energy. And you feel supported and carried. You slow down, which allows you to accelerate again.
- You regain a more fulfilling (family) life, because you know more (self) love, you’re more relaxed, and you feel freer.
WHAT OTHERS SAID:
I’m now at the end of the program and feeling good in my skin again. I feel like I’m glowing and more feminine. I feel more confident, have a positive mindset, I’m setting boundaries well again, and my work-life balance is restored.
— Sharon Koelemeijer
It felt familiar from the first minute! With sharp and decisive questions, you immediately touched on a few topics that really got me thinking. Focus and self-care were the themes of our conversation, and you sent me home with some very concrete tasks. And I love that – getting to work right away!
— Inge van der Heijden
Finally, a man who gets it.
— Jena Martis
He easily pierced through my defenses and lovingly connected with my needs, putting his finger right on the sore spot. The coaching by Thomas has had a deep and positive impact on me.
— Anneke Thoen
Thomas has a kind of magic, I think, for seeing through people because I couldn’t get away with saying, ‘Everything is fine.’ That’s what I especially liked about the one-on-one coaching, that someone truly listens to me and genuinely thinks along with me.
— Zoë Danse
I now see a woman in that mirror who is enjoying life again, who knows what she wants, and who doesn’t let herself be easily knocked down by an obstacle.
— Shirley Redegeld
I get it, maybe you’re thinking…
- I’m used to this, and I can handle it, so why should I change?
- I can carry myself, I don’t need help, I don’t need to be fixed, I’m strong.
- I don’t want my fire and success to burn out. What if I get too comfortable with that “landing”? What if I can’t take off or accelerate again?
As Chris Williamson often says in his podcast Modern Wisdom: “The magic you are looking for is in the work you are avoiding.”
This is where your magic lies. We’re not here to solve problems; I’m not a psychologist or therapist. These sessions are about not having to lead for a change, and after (possibly) landing in the sessions, you can simply take off again.
You have a good life, and you want to keep it that way—and make it even better.
On whom may you lean,
With all of your heart?
Can you truly be seen,
Or does it make you hard?
What if you’re real,
And you show your true face?
If someone knows how you feel,
Will it shift your place?
You know it feels right,
But not when it arrives.
It might bring some light,
Or pain in your lives.
What if hope returns,
And old pains fade away?
With your heart that still yearns,
And in doubt you might stay?
What if you share your ambition and fire,
Without fear that it will expire,
And it feels like you play,
And heal along the way?
After this program:
- You experience calm in your mind and fire in your heart. You stand in your full potential, creating more flow in both you and your business.
- You become a magnet. You naturally attract people, radiating a new level of confidence and charisma. You inspire others to embrace their full potential and strive for growth and success.
- You feel calm and balanced. You no longer “have to” so much, and it becomes easier to switch between your roles.
- You trust your intuition and strength, bringing more authenticity and effectiveness to your personal and professional relationships.
- You experience a deep sense of inner freedom and fulfillment. You no longer feel like you always have to do everything on your own because you’ve learned how it feels to occasionally land and/or be supported.
- You dare to let go and trust. You have more time for yourself, your partner, family, and friends, and you feel freer than ever.
- You become an even better professional and/or business partner, you’ve ended unequal relationships, and your equal relationships have improved because you know and embody (self) love.
This four month program includes:
This unique program combines the power of intuitive leadership with proven strategies.
I teach you to become more balanced based on my developed leadership, training and psychological models. I also have a lot of knowledge about vitality, communication and systemical working.
I also use my countless personal lessons and experiences that you can draw on.
Most importantly. Your program is tailor-made. One size fits none and it is the reason why I start with a maximum of three people per month.
What’s in it anyway:
- A physical kick-off of 3 hours + Analytical Competence Tool worth 495 euros.
- Every week we have an online or physical session of 1 – 1,5 hour.
- You will receive a response to all your questions within 24 hours because you have my 06 number.
- I am your accountability partner. We work with weekly and monthly goals and we reflect on them.
Furthermore, I guarantee your safety and openness. Sometimes with that confrontational mirror, but always with humor and empathy.
Who am I?
When I was 11, a pot of boiling vegetable soup fell into my lap and I suffered severe burns. At the ages of 15 and 25, I went to the psychologist for treatment of my Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and at the age of 21 for a negative self-image.
I used to be so shy that I didn’t dare to look at anyone and I never considered myself good enough. I have not been the director of my own life for a long time.
Having to do everything alone, being ‘on’, having enormous drive & discipline… I have lived through it all. I still do sometimes. And do you know what it is? It’s exhausting.
I taught myself from an early age to be strong, not fail and not to give up. That got me to see the psychologist. Cute and sad at the same time? Anything but. It provided immense resilience.
I believe that you too can gain immense (resilience) strength from your pain and insecurities, if you are willing to make that change.
Personally, in my personal development journey I went from too much (unlimited) feminine energy to uncontrolled masculine energy to who and how I am today. Balanced in both energies.
Now I help and support others in that same quest. I have learned to say the words “I need you” on multiple levels. Not if I really can’t solve it myself anymore, but before that. And I wish you that too. Because you know what feels liberating? Standing in your full potential and living your life your way.
FAQ
I don’t know if I dare (financially). What now?
When it comes to the financial piece, I understand. Investing in yourself is always exciting. And if you have not achieved your results by the end of the four months, we will continue at my expense until you do.
I would also like to ask you to look at it from this other side: what does it cost you to NOT make this investment? How much frustration do you have right now? Isn’t it time for more rest?
I’m already very busy and don’t know if I have the time for it.
Assume that you will spend an average of 2 – 3 hours per week on this.
All the time you put into this process and yourself is directly time you put into creating more peace in your head and fire in your heart. This way you will soon have the life you are longing for. Again: “The magic you are looking for is in the work you are avoiding.”
‘I’ll do it myself’, ‘It could always be worse’ and/or ‘it’s not too bad’.
What happens if you do this yourself? Read all those books, watch webinars? How many hours will that take you? Save yourself the time, because you don’t have that time already. That’s why you’re reading this page.
You want to spend more time with yourself and your loved ones. And yes, that’s right. It could always be worse. But what you don’t realize and do is that you trivialize yourself, your emotions and your own problems. You act as if you yourself are not important.
That’s not true, is it? You do care. You matter. So compare yourself to yourself and take yourself, your own problems and emotions seriously.
I’m not sure of this is the right moment for me.
There is no such thing as the right moment. There is always something in life that you can prioritize. So you end up with ‘if you do what you did, you get what you got’ and the 7 you now have, while you want and deserve a 9.
A maximum of 3 people start per month, so it is completely up to you when you join. If there is a queue, you will really have to wait.
You’re writing something about magnetic. What do you mean?
“Being magnetic” refers to the ability to attract others, as a magnet attracts objects. Magnetism is associated with self-confidence, authenticity, friendliness and charisma. It can have a powerful influence on social interactions, relationships and leadership skills.